Note to self: If you have a child who flips out when something is different, do not put the blue tabs in the potty. Especially after the child has gone to sleep. Because when that child soaks her bed at 3am, and you take her into the bathroom to clean up, all hell will break lose. Related: more coffee please.

Sit on it

Buying our new (to us) home has brought out my inner decorator.

I didn’t even know I had one of those!

I am LOVING making this house our home.

I am also a wee bit impulsive.

I like what I like for no other reason than I like it.

The result is a mix of eclectic styles and colors that appeal to me.

Not HGTV. Not Better Homes.

My home.

Where am I going with this post? Nowhere.

Except to say…..

I love these chairs!


Ok, y’all know we just moved.

Moving brings its own particular joys. Did you hear the sarcasm in my voice?

It also brings a new school.

Was our last school perfect? No. But…Faith’s needs were supported, she was in an environment that allowed her to feel comfortable. She was in a very small self-contained class. The class was all working at the same level, they all had extra needs. No one child was singled out for any issue.

Was it the least restrictive environment?

For Faith, yes. By allowing her to be in a class with only 9 children, it allowed her FREEDOM. She was free to learn at the same pace! She was free to use the bathroom with help. She was free to be with her peers. Kids who were learning at the same level as she was. Kids who also needed sensory breaks. Kids who also needed their coats zipped.

No one was singled out. No one was different.

She was with her peers and that allowed her the freedom to learn.

Was it perfect…once again, no. But it worked beautifully for Faith. She bloomed.

Now we are here.

And I am watching my girl wilt.

I know that every state has its own process and interpretation of least restrictive environment.

But in the end, shouldn’t it be the environment which allows each individual child to grow and learn to their fullest potential?

The staff and administration at Faith new school? They are fantastic. It shows in every communication I have had with them….they truely care about kids. They care about Faith. I don’t think I could ask for a nicer group of people.

But what is in place for Faith right now is not working.

I’m not used to having to fight for services for Faith. It even feels awkward writing that down. Especially when I know I am dealing with a group of people who do care about Faith.

If Faith is to have the best shot at reaching her full potential, something must change.